We visited this gruff-looking gorilla on a beautiful, mild day this past spring. He did not look happy. I decided I was grateful for the safety barrier, as I would not want to get too close to this grumpy guy.
When I was growing up, my dad often reminded me that when my face isn’t smiling, I look cold or even stuck-up. That was good to know since I usually didn’t feel those things at the time. The last thing I want to do is give the impression that I’m unapproachable. Naturally there are times when I look grouchy because I am (just ask Neal). But I just have one of those faces that looks unfriendly if I don’t consciously make the effort to look friendly.
Sometimes we put care into what we wear to worship, but forget to put CARE into our expressions. Lottie Beth Hobbs wrote, “An approving, encouraging, cheerful, or loving look can do so much to lift the heart. It can speak volumes without a word. Just one look often has the power to cause a heart to soar or to sink. Countenances–looks, eyes, expression–speak so loudly to instill doubt and discouragement, or courage and comfort, in the heart of others. What do our looks say?”
“The light of the eyes rejoices the heart” (Proverbs 15:30).
Prayer for Today: When the saints meet, may I never be guilty of reserving my warm face for my circle of friends, but instead greet every single person with eyes that light up and a sincere smile.