By Kathy Pollard
May was kind of a difficult month for us. We attended my first cousin’s memorial. Our youngest son was in a serious motorcycle accident. And my brother-in-law was admitted to Trauma ICU. It seemed like every week I was asking for prayers on behalf of our family. May has always been my favorite month of the year. Spring is in full force and we celebrate Mother’s Day, my birthday, and our anniversary. I usually want the month to go by slowly so I can enjoy it to the fullest. This year, though, I couldn’t help but feel a little relieved when it was time to turn the calendar page.
May also contained reasons for rejoicing. My sister came for a visit. Neal and I celebrated 29 years together. And our youngest son got married. Sometimes God’s blessings shine brighter during times of trouble. I hadn’t seen my sister in ages and was extra grateful to spend time with her. Carl’s marriage to our beautiful new daughter-in-law was especially joyful in light of his recent accident. But as I thought back over last month’s events, it dawned on me that God’s goodness was evident in more than the obvious ways. We also saw it through the many prayers offered on our behalf. We were blessed by fellow Christians offering to house family members visiting the hospital. Brothers and sisters were checking in with us and letting us know they cared. We were given many words of encouragement and love.
Things may not always go the way we expect. Sometimes happy events are interrupted by the trials of life. Loss, fear, illness, trauma, disappointments…even in these we can see God with us. We can be reminded that we need each other and can ask for help. We can grow closer to God as we lean on Him or cry out to Him. We can see God’s goodness in the Family He gave us. And we have a unique opportunity to look within ourselves and see if we are as quick and willing to reach out to those in need.
May has passed but the troubles haven’t. I know people struggling or suffering, and so do you. I thank God for His consistent goodness even through hard times! May we always see it and share it.
“Oh, taste and see that the Lord is good! Blessed is the man who takes refuge in Him!” -Psalm 34:8
“Oh, how abundant is Your goodness, which You have stored up for those who fear You and worked for those who take refuge in You…” -Psalm 31:19
“The Lord is good to all, and His mercy is over all that He has made.” -Psalm 145:9
“I believe that I shall look upon the goodness of the Lord in the land of the living!” -Psalm 27:13
Janelle snapped this precious pic of Emily and me praying before the ceremony.
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Life and Favor (Job 10:12) 
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Reblogged this on The Preacher Pollard Blog and commented:
Beautiful thoughts from my favorite writer!
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This article about your May trials reminded me of a very heartfelt lesson I heard Dan Winkler do (on YouTube) Never know for sure the dates. Some church bldg in Memphis… where BJClarke preached at the time). It was the most honest treatment of the deepest sadness he and wife experienced several years ago! (Yes, yours was honest too. But “hearing” somehow always helps me.) I hope you can find it if you haven’t already heard it. He talked about at length about how at some places during that trial, he and his wife felt as if God didn’t hear their cries. They knew He did but what hard times they faced! Ultimately they begin to “see light”. There’s no way I can articulate all he said but I’ve felt similarly. And you wonder how do people ever get through these types of trials. Yes– we help each other… But some of those valleys you just feel you must travel what “feels like” ALONE!
Thank you for these brief articles that encourage and help us look at things
differently!
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